Self-Actualized Person: Characteristics & Behaviours

Self-actualization, the pinnacle of human potential as conceptualized by Abraham Maslow in his hierarchy of needs, is a profound state of being. It signifies the complete realization of one's capabilities and a profound appreciation for life, often accompanied by personal growth, satisfaction, and contentment. Self-actualized individuals possess unique traits and behaviours that not only define their state but also guide others on the path to self-actualization.

Characteristics of Self-Actualized Person

1. They perceive reality efficiently and can tolerate uncertainty
2. Accept themselves and others for what they are
3. Spontaneous in thought and action
4. Problem-centered (not self-centered)
5. Unusual sense of humour
6. Able to look at life objectively
7. Highly creative
8. Resistant to enculturation but not purposely unconventional
9. Concerned for the welfare of humanity
10. Capable of deep appreciation of basic life experience
11. Establish deep, satisfying interpersonal relationships with a few people
12. Peak experiences
13. Need for privacy
14. Democratic attitudes
15. Strong moral/ethical standards

 

Behaviour Leading to Self-Actualization

1. Experiencing life like a child, with full absorption and concentration
2. Trying new things instead of sticking to safe paths
3. Listening to your own feelings in evaluating experiences instead of the voice of tradition, authority or the majority
4. Avoiding pretence (“game playing”) and being honest
5. Being prepared to be unpopular if your views do not coincide with those of the majority
6. Taking responsibility and working hard
7. Trying to identify your defences and having the courage to give them up

Self-actualization is not a destination but a lifelong journey of personal growth. It demands continuous self-awareness, honesty, and a willingness to embrace new experiences. By cultivating the traits of a self-actualized individual and adopting the behaviours that lead to inner fulfilment, one can live a life of greater authenticity, purpose, and connection to others. While complete self-actualization may be rare, the pursuit of it enriches personal development, fostering a deeper appreciation of life, meaningful relationships, and a strong moral foundation. Ultimately, the journey towards self-actualization empowers individuals to lead a more fulfilling life and make a positive impact on society.